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The Dirtiest of the Four-Letter Words

The Dirtiest of the Four-Letter Words

The absence of information one contributes to a relationship is completely determined by personal comfort. This is not to say that the proclivity to share and, in turn, understand and support is nonexistent; just guarded.  But, just as it is difficult for one to put themselves completely in a relationship because of past experiences, it is also just as difficult for one to not throw himself completely into something on the sheer fact that is who they are.  As scary as exhaustive immersion may be, the fact that there is a shared love is incontestable.  And if the love is there and mutual why is it such taboo to express?

Love is described as a sense of oneness, a deep ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude towards a person, such as that arising from kinship.  In and of itself love is not scary but when whispered in the dark, shouted from a mountain, or proclaimed in a ceremony it elicits an emotion unlike any other known to mankind.  But why?  What is so unnerving at times about this little four letter word?  I believe it lies in the confusion of loving and being in love.

To love someone is a beautiful thing.  To be in love with someone is an ever-changing state that should be shared with few and admired by many.  The fear should lie in the state of being in love because it’s ever changing, unexpected and confusing – that’s reason to be terrified.  We are programmed to be apprehensive of the unknown.  That’s what makes it intoxicating.  It sometimes physically hurts because you yearn to figure it out.  Never knowing what’s going to happen or what will make you fall more.

My plea is thus: do not fear l-o-v-e.  I’m not asking you to use the word loosely and am certainly not undervaluing the power of the word, but don’t lock it away.  Share your thoughts, hopes, dreams, and fears – all facets that make you who you are – and you will be showing true love for someone that you cherish.  Keep them close to your heart, but, most importantly, tell them.  Tell them everything.  Tell them you love them.  USE THE WORD.  Believe in its power to heal. Leave the trepidation for falling in love where it belongs.  For once you begin to fall it should never stop.  But, alas, that resplendent episode is an entirely different colloquy.

Grubstake & Batter Bakery

Grubstake & Batter Bakery

Everyone knows I love food so I decided to start documenting my food excursions that are memorable or just something I think you should try!

20160922_175852This weekend I am in San Francisco performing at N0bHill Theater. San Francisco is one of my favorite places to explore for food. Needless to say, I did not waste any time upon my arrival. I always have to try at least one Diners, Drive-Ins, & Dives stop. This time was The Grubstake located at 1525 Pine St, San Francisco, CA 94109. It is a quaint spot with hand-painted murals and memorabilia. The best part about this spot is that it is partly in an old streetcar!

If the ambiance of this diner is not enough of a draw, the food is beyond words – I am already considering going back once while I am in town. So what did I order? To open the meal, I ordered the corn chowder (special) and garlic shrimp. This was the best garlic shrimp I have ever had. And the corn chowder was to die for! The shrimp was not 3 measly pieces, either, it was a pile of shrimp!

20160922_172451My partner in crime ordered the Johnny burger which basically was a mountain of meat, cheese, tomato, lettuce, bacon, avocado, and two onion rings! And I ordered the special Tri-tip dinner with mashed potatoes. I think nom-noms is an understatement! Follow that up with a piece of the peach pie and you will not want to eat anywhere else for weeks. What tops off this excellent diner is the adorable bakery next door for some after-dinner coffee and a late-night snack take-away of cookies and scones. You cannot go wrong with any sweet from the Batter Bakery. Make these two a must-stop on your next trip to San Francisco!

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Questioned and Answered

Questioned and Answered

Anonymous asked: Is there ever any romance on the set with co-stars since it is so intimate?

Honestly, this can be answered very simply for me: there are no feelings on my part while on set. With that being the simple answer, I will extrapolate.

First, while I do perform in the scenes, I am often involved in much more post-production than other actors. For americanmusclehunks.com I edit and produce the scenes, but I also direct the ones in which I do not perform. That being said, it is very difficult to take those hats off and do just one thing. During a shoot when I am performing I am often thinking about the shot and lighting and sounds and everything you could possibly imagine. Because of this, I do not have the brain power to “fall for” my co-actor.

There are definitely actors with which I have worked that I enjoyed the scene more than others. This is not to say that I like someone over another person, it means I thought the scene was more smooth or something about it stuck out. The sex is just sex, there is no emotion behind it and it is strictly professional.

While this is my account of how to answer this question, every actor may differ. I look forward to more questions to answer!

Recent Events

Recent Events

One of my least favorite questions to be asked is “What’s new?” I despise this question because there is always something new going on in my life. It seems there is never a dull moment. I never have a day to just lie on the sofa and do nothing.

This summer has been a hell summer for me. I began my dissertation and that was just added to the plethora of things I had on my to-do list. If you have been following me awhile you know that last year I started to feel nauseous and no matter what I did it would not go away. That feeling came back and I have been dealing with that, too.

I was able to travel for work a lot and meet tons of new people. That was probably the best part of my summer. I love when I am able to see those that follow my life in different cities. If you want me to come to your hometown, definitely hit me up and let your local clubs know.

That sums up the happenings in my life. I look forward to more experiences together and, as always, hit me up with any questions.

Sports Sex

Sports Sex

Anonymous asked: Did you ever have a sexual experience with a guy on a sports team in high school, and if so, fill us in!

I never actually played any sports, but I had plenty of sexual experiences involving sport-related things. My favorite was in high school one day when I had stayed late to work on the school musical in which I was performing. The choir room was down the hall from the gymnasium which doubled as our stage/auditorium. Between the two of these was the weight room where all the athletes worked out.

As I walked from one to the other, I passed the weight room and heard my name called out. I was not used to other students being in the school that late so I was a bit startled. One of the jocks, John, was lifting and called me in to spot him on bench press. I was a scrawny little kid and he was quite large for a high school student. Rippling muscles and a couple inches taller than me, he was pressing shirtless and drenched in sweat. I immediately started to get hard as I walked into the weight room and saw him. I was familiar with working out because I had started at an early age, but had nothing to show for it being naturally thin.

I walked over to the bench and he sat down, laid back and looked into my eyes. he jokingly said, “Don’t let this drop on me. I’m going for six with no lift-off.” He put his hands on the bar and looked up at me again then at my tight crotch and said, “I’ll help you with whatever you want if you don’t let it fall on me.” Rock hard, all 9.5″ immediately flooded with blood. My head started to spin and I kept telling myself over and over to pull it together. Focusing on the bar, I watched him push it up and his chest explode while he pumped out six easily and then went for two more. I was definitely not needed, and realized maybe he did not call me in because needed me, but because he wanted me.

He sat up and looked at me and said, “Thanks, bro. Anything I can help you with?” I walked out from behind the bench and said told him I thought I was fine. There was an awkward moment of silence as he stared into my eyes. Then his glance moved down until landing on my obvious boner. He reached out and said, “Nothing?” Grabbing my cock, “Not even this?” I lost all sense of reality. He did not even wait for a response and got on his knees. Unzipping my pants, he took my cock in his mouth and drained it of every ounce of jizz I had. He did not waste a drop and swallowed all of it, then looked up at me and smiled, licking his lips. He said, “That’s better now, isn’t it?” I could not form a sentence and as he stood up he reached behind me and grabbed my ass. Pulling me close he said, “That’s our little secret.” With a tight squeeze on my ass he pushed me out the door and went back to lifting.

I jacked off to that experience so many times I cannot count them. I still dream of it. When I filmed BEEFSQUAD, it brought me back to that experience.

Favorite Solo

Favorite Solo

Anonymous asked: What is your favorite solo scene and do you enjoy doing them because I love watching you in every scene, but your solos are SO hot!!!

My favorite solo scene is probably the one I am in bed and feel my body from head to toe. I blow a huge load in the end and it felt so good that I still remember how awesome that release was. Instead of me just describing it, I have linked the scene for you. Just click the picture and you can watch it on americanmusclehunks.com

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Cuddling

Cuddling

I’m often asked, “you are always really sexual, do you ever just want to cuddle and have intimate time?” The answer is HELL YES. I am sexual, but that is part of what I do for a living. Sex is meant to be fun and exciting. It is always whatever you make it. You can have raunchy, dirty sex that is just pure carnal in desire and passion. You can have intimate, emotional sex that makes you feel full of deep love. Either way, both are phenomenal. I LOVE dirty raunchy sex, but I’d take cuddling and intimacy over that almost any day. Holding someone close to me and feeling them fall asleep on my chest is one of the greatest feelings in the world. 20150605_075207_Logo

Questioned & Answered

Questioned & Answered

Anonymous asked: What was the first experience with a man? Were you nervous?

My first experience with a man was that of exploration and young questioning. I was pre-teen and my friend and I were talking about sex, as many young boys do. I had explored some straight porn mags and was so turned on by the huge cocks pounding those wet pussies. The tits on the women and the muscles on the men were my favorite to fantasize about. I whipped out my mags with my friend and we were talking about our fantasies. He mentioned that he thought his cock was much larger than he’d ever seen in any of the mags he had. I agreed that mine was, too. So we whipped them out to compare.

His cock was HUGE. I mean, mine is nice, but his was scary looking – and that was soft. We started getting them hard and showing each other how we stroke them and what we use to pretend like we are fucking. I told him that I bet sticking our dicks in a pussy would feel like the lotion we used, but I could not imagine what it felt like to get it sucked. We both exchanged blow jobs. I took his, now hard, monster cock and started working it over like it was the last thing I could suck. Then he was begging to suck mine. So I forced it into his mouth and he would not stop. Spit just dripping out of his mouth all over my rock hard meat and swollen balls. He had to suck it for at least a half hour. It was heaven.

Finally I pulled him close and began making out with him. I could taste cock on his mouth and said that I like the flavor of my cock on his mouth. He looked me in the eyes and said, “I really want to have your cock inside me.” Without hesitation I forced him back down to suck on my meat and slobber all over it. When it was ready, I bent him over my bed and shoved it deep inside him. He moaned so loud I thought he would wake my family up, but I just kept going and forced his face into the mattress to muffle his sounds. I fucked him so hard that he was crying, but told me to keep going and force it as far as it would go inside him.

After awhile I got really close to blowing my jizz and I told him. He looked back and said he already had, twice. I looked down under him and the sheets were covered with white, hot cum. When I looked back he grinned really big. He reached back and grabbed me on the ass with both his hands. Guiding me to fuck him. I was really close and told him I was about to cum and he just held me in place rocking back and forth on my monster meat until I could not hold it any longer and blew a huge load. I came so hard that I almost fell over, but he held me close and forced every drop into his beautiful man hole. I could see the jizz spilling out around my huge cock and dripping down my balls and legs. It was so much that it ran all the way to the floor and over my feet. Then I saw that he had shot a third load and that he shot it in my direction so it was combining with my jizz.

He pulled my cock out of his hole and spun around. Getting on his knees, he took my dripping cock in his mouth and started to clean it off. He sucked me and begged for the rest of my load to drip out of my still throbbing cock. Then I felt it, I was getting rock hard again and he saw my face and the look of surprise mixed with ecstasy and kept sucking. He forced my cock to gag him deep and worked his mouth and hands up and down my shaft until I blew another full load. Pumping my hot cum down his throat he looked up at me and smiled with his eyes as his mouth was full of my monster meat and load.

That was my first experience. I was 12.

Question and Answer

Question and Answer

Please bear with me as I am trying to set up my question and answer page. This will enable everyone to ask anything they want and I will answer in a post. Your information will be completely confidential and my responses will never indicate who you are. Unfortunately, all the contact forms I have found are quite complicated and do not notify me when I get a new submission. I hope to have this figured out in the next week.

New Website

New Website

Hello, everyone!

I have created my new website in hopes that I will get to know you all a little better, and you get to know me. I had a website previously, but it was too much to handle so I have cut this one down to just blogging for the time being. I hope to add a Q&A section and some other features as time goes on. For now, I will write my thoughts, rants, and anything else that comes to mind. Be sure to check back often! I look forward to hearing from all of you.